Appeal to Emotion

My childhood left three months ago on a plane to Austria.

It was a sad day, the end of June, when my baby cousins moved away. They had lived nearby for almost five years, and now they were moving to a country too far to visit with any regularity. My cousins were a fundamental part of my life; when they were not with me, they were on my mind. A week had never gone by without a visit from them and I doubted my life would be the same without them. They brought back the untroubled days of my childhood, through games, adventures, and silliness; and yet they helped mature me from an at-times selfish teenager into a responsible, mature adult.

My aunt and uncle moved to New Jersey from Boston, with their 1-year-old daughter Yasmeen, in the winter of 1998. They lived in an apartment on the side of our house and I was ecstatic to have our family, especially a baby girl, so close to us. Yasmeen had close friendships with each of my sisters, but I knew the one that developed between us was the strongest. As she began to walk on her own and talk in full sentences, I realized the extent of my influence upon her. I would notice her syntax and mannerisms mimicking mine. I also noticed when she’d copy some of my more unpleasant actions, arguing with her mother after I had done the same. Yasmeen made me realize what being a role model really was.

When Maya was born in 2000, Yasmeen had a hard time adjusting. She was jealous of the attention we all paid to her new younger sister, so I did my best to pay attention to her when she might have not been noticed. Once Yasmeen overcame her jealousy, she was able to enjoy Maya’s presence in our lives, like we all did. Maya grew up fast, too, it seemed. Each day, they got a little bit bigger, doing my best to free my schedule for my two favorite people.

My experience with Yasmeen and Maya has brought me to realize the importance of influential people. I know that I have helped Yasmeen and Maya grow, but “the babies” have made an even great impact on my own life. They have shown me how to be a parent, a sister, a cousin, a babysitter, a child, and most importantly, a friend. My relationship with my cousins has made me a better person-a more patient person, with the ability to tolerate endless questions and spilled juice; an exuberant person, able to have fun and be happy with others and sometimes, when I’d rather not, for the sake of others; a role model, showing the babies the ethics of life, right, wrong, and in between; and a compassionate person, able to be responsible, forgiving, and loving. Yasmeen and Maya made me know that I can and do affect people’s lives and emotions. They are where I leave a lasting impression. And maybe, as they grow, they won’t remember all the fun times we had, but I do know they’ll remember the things I tried to teach them about life and love and family.

Things to Notice about This Essay英文點(diǎn)評(píng)

1.  The essay has a sharp, strong beginning and a fresh honesty that conveys the events of the author’s life and her outlook.

2.  The style is simple and the topic is, too. But we believe in this story because of its simplicity.

3.  The author proves that this has been a significant experience by the lessons she enumerates in the last paragraph.

4.  The reader needs to know a little more about the circumstances of these moves from Boston to New Jersey to Austria, in order to understand the context of the essay.

5.  A few more specific examples in the second and third paragraphs would give them the same strength and vividness as the “spilled juice” reference.

6.  Having shared this interesting story, the author might find a few more insights and results to add to the last paragraph.  The events seem affecting; the effects might be multiplied.

中文點(diǎn)評(píng)：

1、  這是一篇帶有感情描寫(xiě)的申請(qǐng)Essay，屬于我上課講的三種最厲害的Style（Professional, Appealing to Emotion, and Creative）中的第二種。

2、  本文寫(xiě)作文風(fēng)輕快，但流露真情實(shí)感，很容易讓讀者有觸動(dòng)。

3、  文章表面寫(xiě)分離之痛和表親之誼，卻帶出了自己的成長(zhǎng)感觸和對(duì)世界的理解（主要體現(xiàn)在最后一段），不是沒(méi)有任何point的感情描寫(xiě)。

4、  開(kāi)頭段很強(qiáng)（語(yǔ)不驚人死不休）。